Dec
28

The Year In Review

Greetings All!

2011 was a great year for my family, my blog, and my life in general.  There were some very sad moments (we’ll get to those in a bit), but overall, I am happy to have had such a blessed year.  Instead of writing a traditional Christmas Letter, I decided that I would summarize my year via my blog so that anyone can read it.  Without further adieu…

2011 got off to a great start with a trip to Las Vegas in January.  I attended the 2011 International Consumer Electronics Show, where I was able to learn a lot about future trends in technology.  All the knowledge I picked up was beneficial for my current job as a technical researcher at Ford Motor Company and also for some of the technology items I write about for my blog.  A win-win in my book!

As winter became spring, my travel bug started to get the best of me.  There really can be no other reason for planning a 4 state/7 day trip with two 8 year old boys and one highly opinionated mother (I Love You Mom!).  Even though there are some things I would change, I think everyone ended up having a mostly enjoyable spring break trip.  We visited horse farms in Kentucky, the mountains and the Dixie Stampede in Tennessee, the Biltmore and the Great Wolf Lodge in North Carolina, and Charleston in West Virginia.  The mountains and the Dixie Stampede were highly rated by my boys.  Speaking of the Tennessee area, the condo we rented in Pigeon Forge was the best lodging of the entire trip (thanks to my friend Dawn for the tip!).  The RiverStone Resort & Spa is definitely worth looking into if you happen to be visiting the Pigeon Forge area.  The two bedroom condo was stunning and the view of the main strip from our over-sized balcony was great for people watching.

As spring transitioned into summer, I decided to surprise my boys with a day trip to celebrate the completion of 2nd grade.  They had never been on a train, so I decided to book the short trip from Dearborn, MI to Ann Arbor, MI so that we could spend the day exploring Ann Arbor by foot.  They were very excited when we arrived at the train station and had a great time riding the train for the short 45 minute trip.  Once we arrived, we headed to Zingerman’s for lunch and then went to the Hands-On Museum for an afternoon of exploring.  After all of the fun, we headed back to the train station, only to discover that our train was delayed for a few hours.  We found a local park to play at and then decided to find someplace to eat dinner.  I normally wouldn’t take the boys to a restaurant as fancy as the Gandy Dancer, but it was within walking distance and we were hungry!  I’m happy to report that both boys were on their best behavior (Nana too!) and we had a very enjoyable dinner.  We headed back to the Amtrak station to discover that our train was going to be delayed even more.  At this point I had two whiny and sleepy boys on my hands, but luckily the Amtrak station worker took pity on us and told us that we could take the motor coach back to Dearborn instead of waiting for the train.  This was another new experience for the boys as they had never been on a coach bus before, however James was NOT thrilled when he realized that the seats on a coach bus don’t have seat belts.  I guess I might need to tone down the “we might all die if we don’t wear our seat belts” rhetoric in the future!

Summer was a busy time for the Laura in the Motor City family.  Before I talk about the many things we did, I want to take a moment to talk about my Uncle Roger.  He was only 59, and while he fought the good fight, he wasn’t able to overcome the cancer that would not relent.  We lost him in July and I was glad that my Mother was able to get to Texas in time to say goodbye to him before he passed away.  I can only imagine the pain my Aunt and my Cousins will feel when celebrating this first Christmas and New Year without him.  I hope that 2012 is a much better year for them.

As for my Mom, she is still struggling with losing her baby brother.  He was the last immediate relative she had left from her youth since both my Grandmother and Grandfather have been gone for quite some time now.  The loss of Uncle Roger has had me thinking more about how fragile life is and that we should live each day to the fullest.  We never know how much time we’ve got left and it still seems so alien to me that we don’t have my Grandparents or him with us anymore.  My Grandmother was very fond of the Christmas holiday and I’ve found myself missing her more this year than I have in some of the previous years.  I wish she was still here and could have met my sons.  I wish that I could take my boys to Texas to see their Great Uncle Roger.  But wishes are sometimes only that and it will have to be enough to tell the stories and legends that defined their lives.  In doing so, I hope I can bring what is gone back to life for them.

August was crazy busy with travel for the Laura in the Motor City family.  I kicked off the month by visiting San Diego and attending my second BlogHer conference.  I went with my friend Jackie from Free Is My Life and we had a fantastic time.  We attended many private parties and got to meet some cool fellow bloggers.  Three things stand out in my mind from this trip – the day we spent as guests of P&G at the Life Well Lived event, taking part in the HTC insight forum (and getting a new Windows Phone!), and having the greatest luck of all time and winning a new iPad 2 from Verizon.  I can’t wait for 2012 to attend the next BlogHer conference.  I only hope my luck next year is as good as it was this year!

In mid-August, we went on what I refer to as “the annual sibling camping trip”.  My hubby is one of five children and for the last 5-6 years, we’ve been going on a long weekend camping trip with some of his brothers.  In the beginning we always went to Port Austin, but in the last few years we’ve been trying out new campgrounds and found ourselves in Muskegon this year.  The KOA we stayed at was okay, but the camp sites were on the small side.  The good news is that they had a private lake (which we camped along side) that was ideal for teaching the boys how to fish.  The boys were also able to easily access the swimming beach.  The proximity of the campground to Michigan’s Adventure made it a mandatory day trip for us.  The boys had never been to this amusement park before and it was the right speed for their age group.  We normally make a pilgrimage to Cedar Point every October, but that trip was put aside this year in lieu of a visit to a certain mouse (more on that in a bit!).

Near the end of August, my boss invited my whole family up to his cabin in Oscoda for the weekend.  We all had a great time out on his boat.  It was the first time I had tubed in years and I managed to stay on that tube the entire time without wiping out.  I’m still convinced that they were trying to get me off that thing, but I prevailed in the end.  After watching me, James wanted to try out the tube, but ended up getting nothing but water in his face each time.  John watched James and decided that tubing was NOT for him and he was happy to stay in the boat.  My crazy boss let the boys steer the boat, which provided much entertainment for all of us.  James was the more serious of the two and didn’t try any interesting maneuvers, but John was a completely different story.  He had the boat going in circles and my boss was laughing when telling me how much fun drivers education will be in about 7 more years.  Oh joy!

In addition to the boating, the boys had the opportunity to learn how to shoot a pellet gun and a bow and arrow.  After learning all the rules and the basics of using each device, we all got in on the fun and had a good time.  I am continuously amazed by James’ athletic abilities and shooting was no exception.  He’s already proven how good he is on a baseball field and recently his swimming instructor told me that we need to challenge him more in the water.  I can’t wait to see where his natural abilities takes him in the future!

September brought the start of 3rd grade for the boys, which has been interesting for all of us.  There is much more homework than we are used to and Joe and I find ourselves spending numerous hours each evening helping the boys learn the basics.  On the plus side, we are relearning many things that we had previously forgotten.  It’s also been interesting to watch how the boys learn.  They are very different and require different methods of teaching, which keeps us on our toes.  Hopefully we will survive until the end of the school year!

As I mentioned earlier, there was a planned trip to visit a certain mouse, and October was the month our entire family descended upon Walt Disney World.  In addition to the four of us (me, Joe, John, and James), my Mom and Dad joined us as did my Brother-In-Law.  I was able to secure lodging at a beautiful 5 bathroom, 5 bedroom home in one of the Global Resort Homes communities in Kissimmee, FL.  Global Resort Homes works with bloggers to advertise their communities and in exchange for writing about the resort and putting some advertisements on my blog, I was able to get the home for the entire week for free.  We all had a fabulous time at the house.  We had our own private swimming pool and hot tub and when we weren’t visiting various attractions in central Florida, you could usually find us at the pool!  Another pleasant surprise was that my Aunt and one of my Cousins’ families decided to visit the area at the same time and they were able to rent a home almost directly across the street from us.  It was really nice to visit with family that I hadn’t seen in years!

While in Florida we visited Gatorland, the Animal Kingdom, Epcot, the Magic Kingdom, SeaWorld, and Cocoa Beach.  I had the opportunity to write about all of our adventures for the Kissimmee Visitor’s Blog, so if you feel like reading about everything we did, you can find all my articles here:  http://i.seekissimmee.com/author/laura-terbrack/.   When I asked the boys about their favorite parts of the trip, they couldn’t decide which park they liked the best.  Sometime they said SeaWorld and other times the Animal Kingdom.  As for myself, I really enjoyed SeaWorld and found the day we spent at Cocoa Beach very relaxing.  I had the opportunity to body surf (something I hadn’t done in many, many years) and it was such a good time.  Everyone agreed that we should try to come back to central Florida again in a few years, so hopefully we’ll be able to pull off another trip like this one!

As the year comes to an end, I am very thankful for all of the opportunities that came my way this year.  We had a wonderful year of travel and my immediate family enjoyed mostly good health and prosperity.  I hope that 2011 was a good year for you and yours and that 2012 will be a great year for all of us.  Happy New Year!!!

Sincerely,

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Dec
23

Tech Review: HTC Rhyme

HTC Rhyme

Back in October, I had the opportunity to use the HTC Rhyme during my vacation in Kissimmee.  Overall, I liked the model.  There were some very interesting features that I hadn’t encountered on a smart phone before, like the charm and the cool plum color.  Let’s talk about some of the other features below:

 

 

 

  • The headphones were a little on the odd side and as advertised, I wasn’t able to tangle them.  I liked that the ear buds came in different sizes because the large and medium ones didn’t fit in my ears.  I needed to put on the small ones to keep them in my ears.
  • The basics are similar to other smart phones.  There is a 8 GB memory card and a 5 MP rear camera.  I was disappointed with the front VGA camera as the pictures seemed very grainy.  There is a 1 GHz processor and 768 MB of onboard memory.
  • The HTC Rhyme comes with Android 2.3.4 and with HTC Sense 3.5; I should note that this is one of the few versions of Android that I like.  In particular, I like how the notification settings are displayed when compared with different variations of Android.
  • Unlike some other smart phones I’ve reviewed this year, the back cover comes off of the HTC Rhyme rather easily.  I know that this doesn’t sound like much, but I’ve discovered that not all back covers are made the same and I’ve had quite a few really annoy me.  This one was easy to remove and not once did I want to throw it across the room.  I also discovered that this is one of the few phones that will stay powered on if you happen to take off the back cover.  Some people might not like this, but for me the feature was a plus.
  • I decided to test out how well the phone worked when plugged into the USB port of my Macbook Pro.  The Apple OS didn’t automatically recognize the device until I touched a button on the phone to mount the device in SD card mode.
  • I’m always amazed at how easy it is to setup Google Mail on these devices.  I also was able to quickly grab the Yahoo! Mail app out of the marketplace for easy installation.
  • This is the first time I’ve used an Android phone where I let the device sync up my contacts from Facebook.  I have to admit that I really liked this feature and the Friend stream view.  I would love to have it on my current iPhone 3GS.
  • I thought the call quality was good on the Verizon network, though I was disappointed that the phone was not a 4G phone.
  • I liked the charm device, but I’m not sure how big of a deal it will be to the average user.
  • Overall, I liked the dock that came with the HTC Rhyme.  It took me a little while to figure out that I could change the volume for all apps by going back to the main dock screen and then changing the main volume.  If I could change one thing about the dock, I would give it a battery option so that it doesn’t have to be plugged in for the speakers to work properly.  It annoyed me that I had to plug it in for it to work.

Overall, I thought the HTC Rhyme was a solid phone.  I liked using it and if I could be converted to Android, this would probably be a good phone for me (spoken like any true iOS diehard!).  One last note before I close this out.  I was able to arrange for one unexpected test of the HTC Rhyme and I don’t recommend that you try this at home.  I dropped the damn thing at Orlando International Airport and I was sure I was going to be sending HTC some money.  However, there wasn’t a scratch on the thing and it worked fine when I tested all the features again.  The last time I dropped an Apple device, I found myself out $99.00 getting the glass screen replaced, so I was very happy with the durability of the HTC Rhyme.  If you want a solid device for a decent price with good features, make sure you check it out.

Yours in Technology,

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Nov
23

From Russia with Love – An Adoption and Travel Story (Part IX): Where IS That INS Form?!?!

Where We Left Off…

We went to Russia for the first time to meet both the boys.  While there, we spent time with both of them and made our official decision to adopt them both.  We then headed home to finalize things in the United States and wait on one final form necessary before we could complete anything – the notice of favorable determination.  The form that turned me into a crazy person…

What the heck is this form?

Okay…let’s step back in time for a moment.  Months and months and MONTHS earlier, we had filled out a form called the Application for Advance Processing of Orphan Petition.  The short story is that we needed to ask the Immigration Naturalization Service (INS)/United States Citizen and Immigration Service (USCIS) for permission to adopt children from a foreign country and they needed to verify that we were fit to adopt and weren’t trying to break any international or U.S. adoption laws in the process.

I want to say that we mailed this form in August/Sept of 2003…right around the same time that we were finalizing our home study.  At the time, our adoption agency thought it would take 8-10 weeks for the application to be approved, so I wasn’t overly concerned when approval hadn’t arrived before our first trip to Russia.  After all, this was a government agency and delays were to be expected.  But once we got back in December and there was still nothing in the mail from the USCIS, I started to get worried.  We weren’t going to be able to go back to Russia without that approval, so it was time to track down the agent working on foreign adoption forms and figure out what the problem was.

How to annoy a USCIS Agent…

Luckily for me, our adoption agency had the name of the agent at the USCIS who handled the forms, who we’ll call Agent X.  Agent X was located in a town far, far away in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan, so she had the advantage of being far enough away that I couldn’t go sit on her doorstep (trust me…I would have if I could have).  Without any other recourse, I began calling.  Once a week.  Always using the same calm tone.  Always asking for an updated estimate.  I’m sure the poor woman got very tired of hearing from me, but at that point I had tunnel vision.  The only things stopping me from planning my second trip to Russia and getting my babies were that woman and my approval document and I wasn’t going to let her out of my sights.

In retrospect, I did feel bad for her.  It turns out that at the time, she was the only USCIS agent in the entire state that was capable of processing those foreign adoption forms, which was part of the reason for the lengthy delays.  Word was that they might get more staff to help, but no one knew when that might happen.  In the meantime, I just kept calling.  Christmas came, Christmas went.  I was still dialing.  Finally, in mid January, Agent X called me with some news.  My form hadn’t been processed yet, but she was training someone in the Detroit USCIS office to process the forms and she would be sending my case to Detroit.  I wasn’t sure if I should be happy or sad with the new development.  I’d either finally pissed her off so much that my form was going to end up in never, never land in Detroit or the new person might actually try to process the form and maybe I’d get my approval document.  Approximately one week after the case was transferred to Detroit, I had my answer when the USCIS approval letter arrived in the mail.  I have NEVER been so happy to get a government form in my entire life.

By now it was the third week of January and I was on the phone with the adoption agency before I even had the approval completely out of the envelope.  Everyone was very excited with the development and our adoption agency quickly began making plans.  We got more forms to fill out and take for Great Seal approval and we got our final numbers for how much money we’d need to take with us to Russia.  Oy…it was a lot and Joe and I were NOT looking forward to traveling across the world with all that cash strapped to our bodies, but we prepared to do it anyway.  There’s a fun story that goes along with this, but it can wait one more post. :-)

But the most important thing we’d been waiting for was finally given to us – our travel dates.  We’d be leaving for our second (and final) trip to Russia on February 21, 2004.  And as long as everything went well, the adoption would be finalized on February 24, 2004.  The only thing we weren’t sure of was whether the judge would make us stay in country for a 10 day waiting period after the adoption or if she’d waive it.  We had been told that it depended on the judge, so we were prepared to be in Russia for a while.  Not that any of that really mattered to us anyway.  The only thing we cared about was that we’d soon be headed back for our boys and neither of us could wait to begin this final part of the adventure.

Next Up – A Court Date, A Finalized Adoption, and Instant Parenthood – Hello Babies!  From Russia with Love – An Adoption and Travel Story (Part X):  A Court Date, A Finalized Adoption, AND Instant Parenthood!

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Oct
31

Hello Again, Hello…

Whew!  What a whirlwind the last few weeks have been.  Sorry to have been absent for a while, but I took the family on vacation and part of the trip was my stint as a guest blogger on the Kissimmee Visitors Blog, which didn’t leave me much time to write for my own blog.  I’ve cranked out about 12 posts since I started packing about 12 days ago and finally finished the last one last night.  Now that I’m back and catching up, you can count on more regular posts from me.  I’ve got a new adoption post waiting in the wings, a new review of the HTC Rhyme, and an in-depth review of Global Resort Homes, the resort community we stayed at during our vacation in Kissimmee.  If you are interested in reading what I’ve already written about my vacation, please follow the links below.  I’ll be updating this blog post as the last 3-4 entries are published.  I hope you enjoy reading about my trip and look forward to the new content coming your way soon!

Kissimmee Guest Posts

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Oct
14

Happy Birthday to a Beautiful Man…

A little fun before the mushy.  When Joe asked me to marry him, he requested only 3 things – he wanted to pick the wedding date, he wanted my dress to have a train, and he wanted me to wear my hair down.  I gave in on 2 of his requests – he got to pick the date and I wore a train.  If I had released that he was going to pick the day AFTER his birthday for our wedding date, I probably would have given in on the hair thing.  After almost 21 years, I still have some fun mocking him for picking the day after his birthday, only because of the reason.  He’ll try to tell you it was to make it easier for our friends to make it to the wedding or some crap like that, but I know the real reason.  The man simply did not want to ever find himself in the predicament of forgetting our anniversary.  And his solution to that was to pick the day after his birthday, knowing I’d never forget his birthday was coming and hence he’d be reminded of our anniversary.  I suppose after I all this time I should give the man a break and just let it go, but having to coordinate a wedding in the Catholic Church on a Monday and listening to the D.J. ask everyone if they’d rather be home watching Monday night football…nah…I think I’ll continue to mock him for at least another 20 years.

Whew.  Okay…now that I’ve gotten that off of my chest, let me commence with the mushy.  21 years ago today, we were having our wedding rehearsal and I couldn’t wait for the next day when I’d be his wife.  As you might imagine, his birthday got a little lost in the shuffle that year, but I made a promise to myself to make up for it for the rest of our lives.  If you’ve read some of my previous birthday posts, you know I come from a long line of people who love their birthday.  We don’t have a single day – we have a birthday week.  My Mother even tries to go so far as to get a birthday month out of the deal.  I was having some success convincing her that a week of celebrating was plenty until my friend Jackie over at Free Is My Life started posting all those birthday month freebies.  Bad Jackie! JK :-)

Joe wasn’t used to that sort of birthday attention and it took almost 10 years to train him properly.  Now he’s almost as bad as the rest of us – wanting his birthday weekend, special birthday dinner…you get the general idea.  And while I’ve mocked and joked up until now, the truth is that he deserves anything he wants.  This man I married…I never dreamed that our life together would be so wonderful.  He’s the one person I trust with everything.  He’s the only person I let see me cry.  He’s the only person that knows how to cheer me up.  He always has my back, even when he doesn’t agree with me.  And he calls me on my shit…and he’s the only one that can get away with that.

There are days that I look at him and wonder how the time has passed so quickly.  Lately he’s been joking about getting old, but when I look at him all I see is the beautiful man that I fell in love with.  The man with a tender touch and a heart of gold.  The man that could be another dog whisperer.  The man that told me that we’d survive the adoption process.  The man that held our babies and made my heart melt with love.

This man of mine…he’s a practical man.  He’ll never come home with a $5000 piece of jewelry for me, but he’ll always come home – of this I have no doubts.  I know he loves me and it’s the little things he does that count.  My car always has windshield wiper fluid.  I’m constantly getting lectured about letting the gas tank get too low, not because he thinks I’m stupid but because he worries I’ll run out of gas on the freeway.  When I’m sad, he’ll ask me to pull his finger just to get me to groan and shake me out of my mood.  He teaches our boys how to relax because I’m too high-strung to be able to do that properly myself.  And he’s constantly trying to teach me not to take myself so seriously, which is a life-long experiment he didn’t realize he was signing up for.  Sorry love…

I feel privileged to have been able to spend so many birthdays with him.  To see the smile on his face when I put his favorite meal in front of him.  To watch him laugh over the crazy things the boys write in his birthday card…

And so, on this very special day, I want to wish my soul mate an exceptional birthday.  I wish that he wakes up happy.  That he feels joy throughout the day, with the knowledge that the boys and I love him so much.  That I look forward to another 50 years of birthdays spent by his side, making his favorite dish and showering him with love.  Because he deserves it.  Because he’s a beautiful man – inside and out.

All My Love Forever,

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